Formatting of cells changing by itself and formulas not always calculating automatically

Formatting of cells changing by itself and formulas not always calculating automatically

I'm new to Sheets and have been setting up a budgeting template that has many linked tabs. It's going fairly well except certain quirky things have been happening from time to time. 
1- sometimes when I scroll up or down I lose formatting from a random cell. This has mostly happened with borders around cells. For example, I put an extra bold border around the Total row, and then when I scroll back up part of the border in one or a few cells goes back to the thinner border. No matter how many times I redo the border, this keeps happening.
2- I have had a couple of occasions where a formula I enter has completely changed after I moved away from the cell.
3- I have also had issues where the formulas are not calculating automatically. In Excel, there is a setting where you can choose if want formulas to calculate manually or automatically, but I don't see that here so I assume they should all work automatically. This happened with formulas I pasted by dragging the handlebar. I had to go into each cell and press enter to get the formula to start working. This is a problem if it happens to my client. Especially since I have locked the cells with formulas in them. Is there a setting somewhere I need to look at?

Thanks!