Working at the same time in shared spreadsheet

Working at the same time in shared spreadsheet

When sharing a spreadsheet, we cannot work on it at the same time. 
If we use filters and i have it opened with a filter selected whoever is working on it at the same time will see his screen the way I see it, with the filters I selected so he has to stop whatever he is doing until I finish using the filter...   

Any suggestions? am I doing something wrong?