decision check help

hi,
I've worked out my other issues thanks to your help. I have one more cosmetic minor issue.

I have the form set up so a "decision check" box will perform a sendmail action when updated. The way this works practically is when a user updates the database in the view by checking the box, an e-mail is sent out. However, the check box will remain checked (state = true) after this is done, obviously. But, I would like it to always be initially unchecked (even after an update). I am using this feature to function as a "reordering" button, so the user will always want it to appear unchecked unless he/she is prepared to "reorder." I guess this would involved writing a script to change the state of the decision check to = false after an update, but I think this is beyond my ability to do. Any suggestions?

thanks