Issues with embedding views

Issues with embedding views

I am creating a website for lost and found pets. So far I've created the 'report your missing or found pet' form to my satisfaction. However, I'm having a bit of trouble when it comes to displaying the results on my website. I have three issues in particular:

1. I would like to authorize the entries before they are displayed on my site, to prevent abuse. I currently have it set to send me an e-mail notifying me of new entries, but I cannot work out how to prevent them from appearing online automatically.

2. I am using a file upload field to allow users to upload a photograph. I would like to have some limitations to the size and type of file they may upload. Also, is there any way to have the image actually displayed in the embedded view, rather than simply as a link to be clicked on?

3. In the embedded view, the control bar at the top is visible. I would really prefer that it wasn't. How can I get rid of it?

Thankyou